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Self-Control—a Fruit of the Spirit

Self-control is a discipline developed and refined through the Holy Spirit and maturity. The Spirit at work within you, brings strength, even in situations that test your patience or push your buttons. The beauty of self-control lies in its steady, unseen roots, drawing from a heart surrendered to God.

A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.

– Proverbs 25:28 ESV

When self-control takes root, kindness flows freely. Think of the moments that require a quiet pause, a gentle word instead of a quick response, or a smile instead of criticism. These aren’t the results of sheer willpower; they come from God’s Spirit transforming you from the inside out. Self-control allows the Spirit’s gifts to shape your interactions and responses, making you a person of grace who reflects Christ’s character in all you do.

Proverbs 25 tells us that a person without self-control is like a city without protection—vulnerable and easily overtaken. When you practice self-control, you stand guard, ready to respond to life’s situations with wisdom and calmness through the Spirit’s guidance. Each time you choose to pause, listen, and respond gracefully, you fortify your heart and mind against anything that tries to distract you from God’s purpose.

The fruits of the Spirit reflect a heart committed to God and His purposes.

The Holy Spirit is the one who cultivates self-control and every fruit within you. When you yield to Him, He gives you the strength to love others deeply, to remain patient, and to speak kindly, even when your natural response would be the opposite. This is the true power of self-control: aligning your will with God’s, letting His Spirit guide you rather than your emotions or impulses.

Embrace the Spirit’s work in you, trusting that every act of self-control reflects a greater strength at work within you, a strength rooted in God’s unchanging love and grace. Let His Spirit flow through your words and actions, allowing kindness, patience, and love to be the natural overflow of a heart centered on Him.

Today’s One Thing

Pray and ask the Lord to help you seek the Spirit’s direction. Afterward, tell yourself, “With God’s help, I walk in self-control, allowing His kindness and love to shape my thoughts, words, and actions.”

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