God teaches us and by sharing about it, we can learn from each other. When we let go of the perceived control we think we have over our lives and give it to God, it can be freeing. Whatever circumstances take place, give it to God. It makes no difference whether it is good or bad. If it is good, praise God. Thank Him for the blessings. When your going through a trial, ask God to guide you as to how you are to handle that situation. That way we are not getting in His way. In essence, we need to get out of His way.