Why Vulnerability Matters
Matthew West Shares 7 Ways to Be Real in Your Faith
In today’s world, where social media filters our lives and perfection is often the goal, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking you have to present yourself as flawless. But Christian artist Matthew West believes the opposite is true—especially when it comes to faith and music.
His journey through songwriting and performing has taught him that vulnerability and authenticity are what truly connect people, both with God and with one another. As vulnerability isn’t just important in music—it’s essential in your faith journey, too.
It’s easy to fall into the habit of hiding your flaws, especially in environments where it feels like everyone else has it together. But the truth is, your story, with all its messiness, has the power to touch lives.
God uses our brokenness to showcase His grace.
Here are seven key lessons Matthew’s journey of vulnerability and faith can teach us about embracing authenticity.
1. Be Honest About Your Struggles
Like many of us, Matthew has felt the pressure to appear like he’s got everything together, especially as a public figure. In fact, he’s learned that this pressure can sometimes create a false image of what the Christian life looks like. Referring to his song Truth Be Told, “That’s a song about pretending. That’s a song about making sure that everybody knows you’re fine and that you’re holding it all together—even if you’re falling apart,” Matthew said.
Be honest about your struggles, both with God and the people in your life. Pretending everything is fine prevents growth and healing, but vulnerability can bring both.
2. Let Go of Perfectionism
Growing up as a preacher’s kid, Matthew experienced the pressure to “look the part,” always appearing like everything was under control. He shared how this pressure can lead to projecting a false image, especially in ministry: “You try to put on a face, and sometimes you can lose the truest version of yourself in all of that,” Matthew shared.
God wants to work through the “real” you.
Perfectionism can prevent you from experiencing God’s grace. Let go of the pressure to “look the part” and embrace your imperfections, knowing that God works through your real, flawed self.
3. Share Your Story
One of the reasons Matthew’s music resonates with so many people is because he isn’t afraid to share his struggles. By doing so, he invites others to do the same. “There’s been something really beautiful about turning the conversation back around to the people who actually listen to my songs and say, ‘Hey, tell me your story,’” he offered.
Your story, whether it includes struggles or triumphs, has the power to inspire others. Sharing your experiences allows others to connect with you, and more importantly, see how God has been at work in your life.
4. Embrace Vulnerability as a Strength
Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, but Matthew believes the opposite is true. “I learned that if I’m having a bad day… I’ve got to get up and sit here with a microphone and go, ‘Hey everybody!’” Matthew added, When you allow others to see your weaknesses, you open the door to deeper, more meaningful relationships.
When you allow others to see the real you, it creates deeper connections and fosters trust.
5. Let God Use Your Brokenness
Matthew has realized, “Sometimes the very songs I write are the ones that minister to me the most,” he said. (02:00:26) God works through our brokenness, not just for our own healing, but to touch the lives of others.
God can use your brokenness for a greater purpose. When you stop hiding your pain and allow God to work in it, you give Him the opportunity to bring healing to both you and others.
6. Reject the Pressure for Perfection
Matthew points out that “Sometimes being an artist can be kind of self-indulgent, like, ‘Oh yeah, the whole world needs to hear what I have to say,’” Matthew admitted. But by turning the focus outward and embracing authenticity, he finds that his music resonates even more deeply with listeners.
People don’t need perfection—they need authenticity. By being vulnerable about your own struggles, you create a safe space for others to share theirs.
7. Create Authentic Communities through Vulnerability
One of the most beautiful outcomes of Matthew’s vulnerability in his music is the way it opens up space for others to share their stories. His fans often reach out to tell him how his songs have impacted them, which reinforces the power of vulnerability in creating community.
Vulnerability strengthens community. Whether in your church, friendships, or family, being honest about your struggles encourages others to do the same, fostering deeper connections.
Why Authenticity Matters
Vulnerability can bring healing, not only for you but also for those who hear your story and realize they’re not alone. The power of Christian music rests in the authenticity behind those words. Your story—complete with doubts, failures, and victories—is what makes your faith in God real to those around you.
The next time you feel tempted to put on a mask, remember that God works best through your weaknesses. Vulnerability becomes an opportunity for connection and growth.
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