I ask for prayer for my marriage. It isnt bad but my husband and I have been struggling with pornography in our marriage both of us and as much as I want to change its hard on my own and he doesn't want to see a counselor or anyone. If I bring it up he just ignores it or gets defensive and I want to do more to change. I dont know what to do anymore. I know that It cant continue and its a plague on my marriage even if my husband doesn't see it that way.